Nebulophilia is the ‘deliciously naughty’ kink that gets women going

This kink isn’t an uncommon as you’d think (Picture: Getty Images/Westend61) It was only recently that we discovered Keraunophilia — a kink that sees people get pretty turned on by storms. But, there’s another lesser-known kink which certified sexologist Angie Rowntree says has been gaining traction on her female-centric porn site Sssh.com, and it’s also atmosphere-related. Nebulophilia is a little-known kink referring to an erotic interest in fog, mist, steam, smoke, and other hazy, low-visibility atmospheres. It’s already big in pop culture, with mist or steam featuring in scenes that make us swoon. Maybe you thought of Leonardo DiCaprio’s hand pressing up against that fogged up car window in the Titanic movie, as his character Jack finally has sex with Rose. Or maybe your mind went to a gush-worthy Mr Darcy striding through a heavy morning mist to confess his ‘bewitched body and soul’ to Elizabeth Bennet. If that has you feeling a certain type of way, read on to see if you might just be a nebulophiliac. What is nebulophilia? Simply put, kink expert and author of Kink Curious, Gigi Engle, tells Metro that Nebulophilia is being turned on by ‘mist, clouds and other atmospheric things’. ‘It’s where you become super aroused by the sensation of mist or seeing clouds of fog or smoke,’ she explains. ‘It can have to do with the ambience or whimsy and romanticism of clouds and mist. Sign up to The Hook-Up, Metro's sex and dating newsletter Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we'll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can't wait for you to join us! The kink is highly sensory and adds to the sexual experience (Picture: Getty Images) ‘It’s highly sensory and visual. It doesn’t mean you’re attracted to clouds or mist, but mostly it’s the atmosphere that features as an arousal component.’ Ask Metro Use AI to go deeper into the stories you care about – powered by Metro and trusted publications. Lovehoney’s sex expert Annabelle Knight agrees, telling Metro: ‘They tend to evoke strong emotions, and fog and mist are often used in media to evoke these.’ As Gigi points out, any nebulophiliac would have ‘loved’ Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi’s portrayal of Wuthering Heights. The weather—namely the heavy mist and fog rolling across the Yorkshire moors— is meant to be a metaphor for the untamed passions of Catherine and Heathcliff. We see Margot’s character, Catherine, masturbating in the fog as Heathcliffe watches, as well as meeting secretly to have sex in the car at her father’s funeral under the cover of the mist. ‘Steam is also used in such a way, there are plenty of steamy scenes which take place in showers, for example,’ Annabelle adds. Think Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov in Heated Rivalry as they stare at each other in the men’s locker room showers. The tension. Both experts say popular culture will definitely have given fog, steam and mist their sexual charge. Annabelle adds that these atmospheric changes are often used to ‘represent mystery, which in itself can be an attractive construct’, too. Away from prying eyes Kink expert Gigi explains that this sort of weather can give us a sense of isolation from the outside world. ‘When it’s like misty, cloudy and rainy, it’s usually an indicator that the weather isn’t good,’ she says. ‘So, situationally you’re stuck in the house, which is an opportunity to have a lot of intimate time. It interlinks.’ This is a point echoed by sexologist Angie, who paints a picture as to how this might make you feel. She says: ‘You wake after a night of gentle rain to find the world outside wrapped in fog. The street has vanished, the air feels charged with mystery, and suddenly that small bubble of visibility seems made for you and your lover and whatever deliciously naughty things you might do within it. Steam has become synonymous with arousal in films and TV (Picture: Getty Images) ‘For those who experience it, the obscured, dreamlike setting can feel intensely sensual: the familiar world disappears, inhibitions soften, and an ordinary moment becomes a private fantasy.’ Experimenting with nebulophilia It’s actually a much more common kink than you might realise, given the above, Gigi explains. ‘It’s also a pretty easy one to experiment with,’ she adds. You can start with shower sex, letting the bathroom get steamy, although be careful not to slip. ‘Having sex in steam means you’re having sex in a hot environment, so you need to be careful not to overexert yourself as you could pass out,’ Annabelle warns. It could even be as simple as being intimate while it’s foggy outside, and Annabelle adds that you certainly ‘shouldn’t be ashamed’ if this gets you going. ‘If it’s something you feel comfortable bringing up with a partner, be sure to explain it by how you are feeling, vs. using the word nebulophilia as they may not be familiar with the concept,’ she adds. Deals of the Day My honest review of the new UKLash Lash Lift Gel Kurt Geiger's new Notting Hill collection is a love letter to London's chaotic weather Dyson fans are swapping to this Hoover vacuum-mop that washes floors as it cleans I tried L'Oréal Paris's new PDRN serum and my skin looked glossier after one use This new Cricut gadget turns your favourite photos into stickers in minutes And with foggy autumn mornings just around the corner, the options are endless. Do you have a story you’d like to share? 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